“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”
Luke 6
I've been reading in Crazy Love the past couple of weeks, and there is a lot of great stuff in that book. Yesterday I was sitting at Barnes and Noble while Bree slept (ironically where I am right now, again) reading chapter 8. It was a "profile of the obsessed" and it discusses what a person who is obsessed with God looks and acts like.
I had three major convictions, but it is the first that I will discuss today.
I recently realized I have a major sin issue with forgiveness. It's not necessarily that I have trouble offering forgiveness because I don't. I know it my heart that God has forgiven me for a lot worse than whatever someone does to me. I also know that if I withhold forgiveness, God will also withhold forgiveness for me - and we can't have that because I mess up daily!
My issue with forgiveness is the forgetting aspect - the casting it as far as the east is from the west and remembering it no more. That part. Can I get an Amen? Because I think a lot of people are onboard with this weakness.
It's easy to say I forgive you. It's not easy to forget what was done, forget the pain, forget how the person made you feel. After offering forgiveness, my tendency is avoiding the person/situation to avoid further hurt or repeated offenses.
How unlike Christ we are.
Luke tells us in chapter 6 verses 32-36 that we aren't set apart from sinners if we only love those who love us.
We a called to love those hate us. Love those who hurt us. Love those who cause us pain. Not just forgive - but LOVE.
I do a horrible job of that, and for that, I pray daily for repentance when I can't control my thoughts and old hurts creep up again. When chatting with my sister about this, she made a great point. It is not natural to forget offenses against us, but we have to take our thoughts captive. Daily.
So, Lord willing, I will be trying to be a lot more forgetful when it comes to pain ... and a lot more in control of my mind.
Lord willing.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Every Woman's Battle
The battle for our men is not fought with weapons and warfare but on our knees with prayer and petition.
I am realizing this more with each passing day. Our men are under attack daily from hundreds of different enemies. I recently started a prayer initiative, in which I was praying daily for Brent and Bree using The Power of the Praying Woman series. Through it I realized just how important praying for our husbands is. Daily.
Our men's hearts, minds, eyes, and souls are being sought after each day, and we are fools if we don't see it. Though we are called to be a help mate - not a spiritual leader - it does not exempt us from all responsibility. We are to support our husbands and cover them in prayer.
I urge you to join me in this fight, and pray for our men today. Sons. Husbands. Fathers. Brothers. Coworkers. Uncles. Grandpas. As a leader, as a father, as a worker, and as a man in general.
Be a part of the solution.
I am realizing this more with each passing day. Our men are under attack daily from hundreds of different enemies. I recently started a prayer initiative, in which I was praying daily for Brent and Bree using The Power of the Praying Woman series. Through it I realized just how important praying for our husbands is. Daily.
Our men's hearts, minds, eyes, and souls are being sought after each day, and we are fools if we don't see it. Though we are called to be a help mate - not a spiritual leader - it does not exempt us from all responsibility. We are to support our husbands and cover them in prayer.
I urge you to join me in this fight, and pray for our men today. Sons. Husbands. Fathers. Brothers. Coworkers. Uncles. Grandpas. As a leader, as a father, as a worker, and as a man in general.
Be a part of the solution.
Friday, June 24, 2011
New Mom
So - I was told for months and months how crazy I would be as a new mom. Luckily, I knew ahead of time to be praying for it, and I think I have side-stepped a lot of it. I don't really mind leaving Bree with people (that I trust of course), I don't mind letting people hold her (same thing, that I trust), we took her out from day one, and I let Brent do as much as he wants with her.
The one thing I am struggling with is the wisdom to know when to move her into the nursery. When we originally picked the upstairs bedroom for her nursery, I thought no problem! Now that she's here it feels like it is 100 miles away. I bought a video monitor, and even that doesn't ease my anxiety.
You'd think I'd be fine with it. After all, I prayed over her room. I pray over her for protection. I pray for safety. I think she's covered ... but it still makes my stomach turn thinking about it.
My goal is to have her upstairs when we get home from Indy -- which is in a couple of weeks. I think if God blesses me with peace about it, that will be a likely reality.
So keep that in your prayers for me.
The one thing I am struggling with is the wisdom to know when to move her into the nursery. When we originally picked the upstairs bedroom for her nursery, I thought no problem! Now that she's here it feels like it is 100 miles away. I bought a video monitor, and even that doesn't ease my anxiety.
You'd think I'd be fine with it. After all, I prayed over her room. I pray over her for protection. I pray for safety. I think she's covered ... but it still makes my stomach turn thinking about it.
My goal is to have her upstairs when we get home from Indy -- which is in a couple of weeks. I think if God blesses me with peace about it, that will be a likely reality.
So keep that in your prayers for me.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Purpose Driven Life?
I wonder how God is honored in changing diapers ...
I've been struggling lately with finding purpose and meaning in my daily activities. I know that it's not about me - it's about taking care of my family. I am completely blessed to have the opportunity to stay home with Bree, and I love spending time with her - but I still struggle with feeling like what I do matters.
I wake up, I feed her, I change her diapers, I bounce her, I play with her, I change more diapers, and I feed her again. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. Throw in some cooking, cleaning, and paying bills -- and there you have it.
The problem is that I know success is found in honoring God - and not in what we feel like we accomplish in life. I pray that if I continue to do my work well - serving my family and loving them - I won't be able to help but see God honored in my life.
I guess God cleans up my dirty mess on a daily basis ... so who am I to balk at cleaning up someone else's?
"His master replied, 'Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!'"
Matthew 25:23
I've been struggling lately with finding purpose and meaning in my daily activities. I know that it's not about me - it's about taking care of my family. I am completely blessed to have the opportunity to stay home with Bree, and I love spending time with her - but I still struggle with feeling like what I do matters.
I wake up, I feed her, I change her diapers, I bounce her, I play with her, I change more diapers, and I feed her again. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. Throw in some cooking, cleaning, and paying bills -- and there you have it.
The problem is that I know success is found in honoring God - and not in what we feel like we accomplish in life. I pray that if I continue to do my work well - serving my family and loving them - I won't be able to help but see God honored in my life.
I guess God cleans up my dirty mess on a daily basis ... so who am I to balk at cleaning up someone else's?
"His master replied, 'Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!'"
Matthew 25:23
Friday, May 20, 2011
First Steps
No, Bree is not already taking her first steps. She doesn't even know she has feet yet. But my first steps as her mom are to release her daily into God's watchful protection. Many new moms fear constantly about their new baby. Some things are realistic, some are completely crazy (but it makes sense to them at the time).
I have not struggled with this too severely, but I think it is because I had to give Bree to the Lord a long time ago, before I even knew her. After I got home from Africa, we found out I was pregnant. I was nervous everyday. I prayed that she wouldn't be affected by the drugs and vaccines I had received. With each passing month I had to continue to give her to the Lord. She was in His hands.
Now that she is here, I have to continue to do that.
My first devotion on praying for your child was exactly that: releasing my child into God's hands.
"We cannot be everywhere. But God can. We cannot see everything. But God can. We cannot know everything. But God can. Releasing them into God's hands is a sign of faith and trust in Him."
How foolish of us to think we love our child the most. God surely cares for them as much - or more - than we do. Whenever fear strikes my heart about Bree, I will take it as a cue to pray until I feel peace. If I do not feel peace, I will enlist the help of others to pray, as well. Giving her to God must be a daily choice, and by putting God in charge ... That takes a lot of pressure off me. And parenting becomes much more enjoyable.
I have not struggled with this too severely, but I think it is because I had to give Bree to the Lord a long time ago, before I even knew her. After I got home from Africa, we found out I was pregnant. I was nervous everyday. I prayed that she wouldn't be affected by the drugs and vaccines I had received. With each passing month I had to continue to give her to the Lord. She was in His hands.
Now that she is here, I have to continue to do that.
My first devotion on praying for your child was exactly that: releasing my child into God's hands.
"We cannot be everywhere. But God can. We cannot see everything. But God can. We cannot know everything. But God can. Releasing them into God's hands is a sign of faith and trust in Him."
How foolish of us to think we love our child the most. God surely cares for them as much - or more - than we do. Whenever fear strikes my heart about Bree, I will take it as a cue to pray until I feel peace. If I do not feel peace, I will enlist the help of others to pray, as well. Giving her to God must be a daily choice, and by putting God in charge ... That takes a lot of pressure off me. And parenting becomes much more enjoyable.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Beauty Revealed
My first real lesson from my new quiet time routine (see Previous post) was in the area of wifehood. The first part of praying for your husband actually started by praying for yourself, his wife. Weird, but okay. I was awestruck by this quote:
"You will be expected to be sexually appealing, a good cook, a great mother, and physically, emotionally, and spiritually fit."
I think all too often we try to do these things in our own power, and it is absolutely impossible. I think it is completely fine to enlist God's help in these areas. But the one I want to address specifically is the appealing one. There has to be some effort on our own part made to keep ourselves attractive to our husbands. I am not saying anything like cosmetic surgery is ever warranted, but like Queen Esther, who beautified herself for a year before going to see the king, we need to make the effort.
I often find myself wondering, does Brent still find me attractive? My devotional posed this question in response to that thought:
"What am I doing to make myself attractive to my husband? Do I keep myself clean and smelling good? Do I see that my internal self is cleansed and rejuvenated with regular exercise? Do I preserve my strength and vitality with a healthful diet? Do I dress attractively? And most important: do I spend time alone with God every day? I guarantee that the more time you spend with the Lord, the more radiant you will become (Proverbs 31:30). You can't afford not to make this investment in yourself ... It is not selfish to do it. It is selfish not to do it."
I would say that is fairly convicting, but I think it is definitely timely for me right now. I have been dealing with a new body since I had Bree. I call it my 'mom' body. While I have put time and effort into getting back to my original weight, and because I have made an effort to eat healthy and get moving, I achieved that goal weeks ago. However, things may never be exactly how they used to be, but I am learning that it does not make it less beautiful, or me less beautiful to Brent.
My beauty and radiance ultimately come from time spent with the Lord and my relationship with Him. I can make the effort to do what I can to maintain a healthy body, but my heart for the Lord is what shines outward and beautifies me.
"You will be expected to be sexually appealing, a good cook, a great mother, and physically, emotionally, and spiritually fit."
I think all too often we try to do these things in our own power, and it is absolutely impossible. I think it is completely fine to enlist God's help in these areas. But the one I want to address specifically is the appealing one. There has to be some effort on our own part made to keep ourselves attractive to our husbands. I am not saying anything like cosmetic surgery is ever warranted, but like Queen Esther, who beautified herself for a year before going to see the king, we need to make the effort.
I often find myself wondering, does Brent still find me attractive? My devotional posed this question in response to that thought:
"What am I doing to make myself attractive to my husband? Do I keep myself clean and smelling good? Do I see that my internal self is cleansed and rejuvenated with regular exercise? Do I preserve my strength and vitality with a healthful diet? Do I dress attractively? And most important: do I spend time alone with God every day? I guarantee that the more time you spend with the Lord, the more radiant you will become (Proverbs 31:30). You can't afford not to make this investment in yourself ... It is not selfish to do it. It is selfish not to do it."
I would say that is fairly convicting, but I think it is definitely timely for me right now. I have been dealing with a new body since I had Bree. I call it my 'mom' body. While I have put time and effort into getting back to my original weight, and because I have made an effort to eat healthy and get moving, I achieved that goal weeks ago. However, things may never be exactly how they used to be, but I am learning that it does not make it less beautiful, or me less beautiful to Brent.
My beauty and radiance ultimately come from time spent with the Lord and my relationship with Him. I can make the effort to do what I can to maintain a healthy body, but my heart for the Lord is what shines outward and beautifies me.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Where have I been?
Hello, blog. I have missed you.
The past month has been a blur of feeding, crying, and changing diapers. Things are starting to settle down a bit, and I am learning Bree a little more each day. Praise the Lord.
Spiritually, things have been a little dry for me these past two months. I recently went to the bookstore to find something I can do on my own this summer to refresh my relationship with God.
I chose an awesome three-book compilation. It is The Power of the Praying Wife, Parent, and Woman. I have already started the prayer journey, and it has been amazing. I will start posting some of my reflection tomorrow - if Bree allows me to.
I start by reading one chapter in the morning about praying for Brent, and then I pray for him. At lunch, I read a chapter about praying for children, and then I pray for Bree. I have not started the 'woman' section yet. But tonight, I will start that as well. So in the evening I will read a chapter about womanhood, and then pray for myself.
My goal for this summer is to really grow in my prayer life. It is so astronomically important. I have already felt God moving in my life. When something comes to mind, rather than worry about it, I just start praying. So hopefully I continue to develop good prayer habits.
Please hold me accountable to this. You can even let me know if I can pray for you, and I will!
The past month has been a blur of feeding, crying, and changing diapers. Things are starting to settle down a bit, and I am learning Bree a little more each day. Praise the Lord.
Spiritually, things have been a little dry for me these past two months. I recently went to the bookstore to find something I can do on my own this summer to refresh my relationship with God.
I chose an awesome three-book compilation. It is The Power of the Praying Wife, Parent, and Woman. I have already started the prayer journey, and it has been amazing. I will start posting some of my reflection tomorrow - if Bree allows me to.
I start by reading one chapter in the morning about praying for Brent, and then I pray for him. At lunch, I read a chapter about praying for children, and then I pray for Bree. I have not started the 'woman' section yet. But tonight, I will start that as well. So in the evening I will read a chapter about womanhood, and then pray for myself.
My goal for this summer is to really grow in my prayer life. It is so astronomically important. I have already felt God moving in my life. When something comes to mind, rather than worry about it, I just start praying. So hopefully I continue to develop good prayer habits.
Please hold me accountable to this. You can even let me know if I can pray for you, and I will!
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